What It’s Really Like To Be A Social Escort In Singapore – Secret Lives

Many people think that social escorts in Singapore lead very secretive lives, and that is partly true.

This is largely because Singapore is still considered a very conservative country. As a result most Singaporeans are not accepting the idea of people working as escorts. It is still a relatively taboo though perfectly legal job in Singapore.

However, Singaporeans also want ‘face’. That is one of the biggest reasons why social escorts are seemingly driven underground when it comes to juggling their personal and escort work lives.

Here is a recount of a verified Singaporean social escort living in Singapore.

A university student, Alicia is currently working part time during any free days and weekends as an escort to pay for her university loans. Unable to secure a scholarship, and having come from a lower-middle income family background, she had to rely on herself fast to get her loans paid off.

It was also in recent years that the idea of being an escort or sugar baby started to really take off. So Alicia decided to pursue this as a career on the side.

Alicia initially started off as a sugar baby, but realized that some clients were really needy.

However, as she had her personal lives and the sugar daddies simply could not understand why she wanted a separation between her personal life and her being their sugar babies, she decided to go and switch full time to being just a social escort instead.

Alicia said, “It’s simply less of a hassle, and fits my schedule as a student much better.”

“Additionally, I am actually paid more as a social escort per hour worked. None of the previous sugar baby work in Singapore or otherwise paid anywhere as much per hour worked.”

Alicia admits that sometimes she has to remind herself not to develop a crush on her clients.

Sometimes, she will meet a client whom she may start developing a crush on. In fact, the very first time it happened, she wondered why they had to meet this way.

Like everyone else, we asked her the seemingly obvious. Why not just quit and lead her future life with that guy like the movie ‘Pretty Woman’ then?

To which, Alicia replied, “Well, having my identity protected is the most important thing to me. If there is an ugly break up, there is a chance that the ex-client exposes my real identity to everyone. This can have bad social consequences for me in future. It is just way too much of a hassle.”

Working as an escort girl requires sacrificing a lot of personal time

Due to protecting her own privacy, she keeps her work completely secret from all of her friends and family.

She feels there is no need for others to know, as this is her personal choice and affected by no one else anyway. She is also single too, which makes it easier.

This meant leading a double life. Although sometimes she hates missing out on friends’ and relatives’ birthdays and gatherings, the money more than enough makes up for it. The money is definitely one of the major reasons why many Singaporean girls are becoming social escorts. If you are interested in some of the other reasons and want to know more, here are some lesser-known reasons some local girls become escorts.

One can say that Alicia is definitely long term minded.

Amazing for her finances

Everyone knows that being an escort can potentially bring lots of financial rewards. However, being an extremely successful escort in Singapore, where escorts are amongst the highest paid in the world, can result in truly amazing finances.

In short, according to Alicia, it is far more difficult than the casual job seeker thinks. Unless one is truly prepared for all the good and bad side of a social escort job, one shouldn’t do it at all.

I guess, being an escort is definitely not everyone’s cup of tea!

The Real Truth Behind How Much Social Escorts In Singapore Earn

If you are a Singaporean girl wanting to be an escort, you may have seen ads claiming that you can be an escort in Singapore and make more than $10,000 per month or even over $20,000 monthly. However, is that the truth? Or is that actually fake or exaggerated?

The short answer is that, it is often fake.

However, when I mention that it is fake, it is not that everything is a scam. It is that many of the income claims are over inflated. While you can make a lot of money per hour working, most job ad claims of 5 figures are grossly exaggerating.

To give you a realistic illustration of how much escorts in Singapore actually make, I have taken painstaking efforts to interview actual escorts in Singapore to provide you with this information.

Escorts in Singapore do make few hundred dollars per hour worked

First of all, local female escorts in Singapore do make anywhere between $200 to $500 per hour. This is either the rate that they charge or that they nett from work through an agency. Regardless, it is around that range. This means that if we take an average of $350 per hour, working just 4 hours a week will nett you around $1400 a week, and $5600 a month! This is very few hours a week to make well over a few thousand dollars a month. To make a regular salary of $5600 a month in Singapore as an employee, you would need to probably be a lower to mid tier manager, have worked for 3 to 8 years and work at least 9-6pm for at least 5 days a week.

Also, when it comes to the $5600 in the above escort example, keep in mind that is in cash. However, if someone made $5600 a month in their day job, the nett take home is around $4480 working at least 10 times the number of hours. Essentially, as an escort, during the hours that you work, you make at least 10 times that of what many people in Singapore make per hour worked.

One of the reasons for potential income disparity is your willingness to work

Second of all, your income potential is really limited by how hard you are willing to work, as well as how good your availability and schedule is. If there is a late night booking, will you go for it? If there is an early morning booking, will you wake up earlier for it? These are questions you need to answer before deciding to be an escort.

Last minute bookings are also the norm. If you cannot keep to such ‘on-call’ timings, or in other words, last minute timings, you should not even bother applying to be an escort. On the other hand, if you are willing to work hard, and work even at odd hours, then you will make more income than your peers with just a few hours a week. Any more than that and you will make any of your graduate employees friends’ salary look peanuts. This is one of the biggest reasons why some girls who work as social escorts make a lot of money, while others make barely anything. Your willingness to work, and availability for work is everything.

Your age and looks also play a big part in how much money you can make

Third of all, do you look good? Do you look youthful? Most men and clients who are looking for social escorts in Singapore want a local Singaporean girl who is youthful, young, and beautiful. Super thick women are not well liked in Singapore. This is the unfortunate truth. If you are slimmer, or toned and curvy, you will get a lot more clients. If you are too fat, you will not make it. Age does play a big part, although most escorts between ages of 18 to 30 do make about the same amount of money, assuming other factors are nearly equal. If you are older than 30, it is genuinely harder to make as much money as if you are in your 20s. This is another unfortunate truth in this industry.

In short, those job ad claims of 5 figure ++ a month may be exaggerating. However, if you are young, look youthful and slim, willing to work hard and at odd last minute hours all the time, you can easily make a few thousand dollars extra a month as a result of having a social escort job in Singapore.

If you are still undecided whether you should be an escort in Singapore or not, perhaps you can look at my other post on the pros and cons of being a female escort in SG!

5 Ways How To Get A Girlfriend In Singapore

Here are 5 powerful ways you can use today to get yourself a girlfriend in Singapore now.

1. Do not put the girl on a pedestal

One of the biggest mistakes that many Singaporean men make when trying to get a girlfriend in Singapore is that they are chill when they meet normal girls. However, when they meet an absolute beauty, they get stunned and put the girls on a pedestal. Putting any girl on a pedestal is a guaranteed way to get the girl to dislike you.

While some girls go for rich men, others go for handsome ones, others go for short ones, every girl wants one thing in her man – confidence. It is an absolute turn off for every Singaporean girl to meet a man who puts her on a pedestal and look like an indecisive, cowardly fellow.

Before trying to approach any girl, simply enjoy your time with her instead of trying to make a particular outcome happen. Of course, this does not mean having a happy conversation with her and then disappearing off never to talk to her again. That is also not the case. However, most men try to get the girl to do something in particular each time they approach the girl. You may have tried getting the girl to give you her number, or tried to get a date on the spot. Girls’ brains do not function the same way as a man. It is more important for girls to enjoy her time spent with you before she will ever consider going out with you. Therefore, focus on enjoying yourself and just being yourself.

This then leads us to the second point.

2. Be yourself – but not in the way you may think

A lot of men used to think that they need to behave a particular way to attract a girl. Perhaps you have tried that and realized the hard way that that does not work. So you then start following the other extreme end of the advice – being yourself. Yet it also does not work! Why is that the case? So how do you get a girlfriend in Singapore then? Are you doomed to be single? No.

The reason is because you are not being yourself enough. Most men start from the opposite end of the spectrum – trying to portray a certain personality. They fail at that then try to reach the other end. But the truth is many people still hold back. Perhaps you think that a particular personality trait of yours will turn girls off so you purposely dial it down. Chances are, most men are not themselves enough! They are still holding themselves back, and not being perfectly themselves. For instance, a simple check is to ask yourself – is there a difference in the way you behave in front of the girl you like and in front of your best platonic girl friends? If there is, you are probably not yourself enough.

3. Hire an escort to gain confidence

While this may be a bit more of a controversial advice, hiring a social escort can greatly increase the amount of confidence that you will get when approaching beautiful girls in public.

Some people may have suggested to you that you should simply approach girls of all types and talk to them even if they are not your type so you build up your confidence. The inherent problem with this supposed solution is that these girls are not your type! You may have tried this supposed solution, but end up still being nervous like crazy in front of girls who are actually your type!

However, if you hire a social escort who is exactly your type – you can get a true local one here, an experienced one will treat you as though you were already your boyfriend during the period that you engage her social escort services for. That quickly gives you the confidence after you have engaged multiple social escorts, all of whom are your type. Then when you finally approach a girl your type, you will have no fear!

4. Approach girls from an angle

If you see a girl in public, and wish to approach her in Singapore, there will probably be two types of reactions. First of all, she may think you are an insurance or property agent and avoid you like the plague. Or, secondly, she may think you are asking for directions or begging for money. Either way, she will probably not be inclined to walk anywhere near you.

So what should you do?

Simply approach her from the front, but at a 45 degree angle. However, do not look like an insurance or annoying agent by staring at her from far away, and keeping eye contact and walking closer. That will not work in Singapore because that is exactly what credit card and insurance and property salespeople do!

Simply approach her from a 45 degree angle and only talk to her when you are close enough, for example, 2 metres away.

Then compliment her on something on her such as her clothes or shoes! Just make sure that it is a genuine compliment!

5. Improve yourself – Get rich, get muscular, get e.t.c.

You can either complain about how richer, more muscular or better dressed guys get girlfriends easily, or you can do something about it, work on it and get the same advantage as well!

Just like you would not want a girl who does not take care of her appearance or carry herself with an elegant vibe, girls do not want a man who refuses to improve himself too.

Should You Be A Social Escort In Singapore? Pros And Cons

Some girls think that being a social escort is an easy job. It is easy if you know what to expect, and are fully aware of the pros and cons and proceed. Just like any other job, there are always upsides, and downsides. Here are some pros and cons of being a social escort in Singapore.

Pros of being an escort in Singapore:

1. It is highly paid. On a per hour basis, you make as much as top lawyers and surgeons in their 40s make. You can be expecting to make anywhere between $200 to $500 per hour as a social escort in Singapore.

2. You can hold a full time job, or perhaps even still run a Carousell business selling other things on the side. Many social escorts have a full time job as an insurance or property agent or perhaps a fixed hour office job or run their own online business while working as a social escort. The beauty of this job is that it can be part time.

3. You need not have sky high academic qualifications to get a social escort job in Singapore. However, it is strongly recommended that you at least have a Diploma or Degree, and are eloquent. Clients engage escorts who are intelligent, beautiful and eloquent, not a low class ah lian.

4. Due to the high paying nature of the job, you are essentially being paid to be someone’s temporary girlfriend for perhaps a few times a week. This means that you will be able to make a tidy income from your social escort job with just a few hours a week if you are able to accept both the pros and cons.

5. Did someone say more financial freedom, Prada, Gucci and Louboutin? These are the norm if you work hard as a social escort in Singapore.

Cons of being an escort in SG:

A. Clients are very last minute. If you do not have a flexible schedule, I strongly recommend against you applying for any escort vacancies. Some of them can contact you and request to meet you within the hour, while some within a few hours.

B. Just like any job, there may be clients you love, and there may be clients you hate. As long as you can accept that and you are a people pleaser type, then you can potentially do well.

C. You cannot choose your clients. Some agencies allow you to pick clients to a tiny extent, but largely, if you want to make a lot of money, stop being picky. This job is terrible if you have a picky personality.

Special things you may want to note:

– Being available on demand is key if you want to make a lot of money as a female social escort in Singapore.

– Being available at odd hours will ensure you will make more money as an escort than other girls in Singapore – this is because other girls may not be available e.g. in middle of the afternoon or well past midnight. If you are available, you may make more money.

– Clients do not pay you to be a social escort to stand next to them or sit there motionlessly like a first date. Clients pay you so much money for you to pretend as though you are already their girl.

– You may want to do further research online by yourself on the social escorts industry in Singapore before deciding to become one.

– It can be a financially rewarding career if you can accept both the pros and cons of the job. If you want to know more about how much you can really make as an escort in Singapore, read this other post.

– You can watch this Razor TV interview episode of a local social escort in Singapore who talks about her lifestyle as a social escort in Singapore.