Many people think that social escorts in Singapore lead very secretive lives, and that is partly true.
This is largely because Singapore is still considered a very conservative country. As a result most Singaporeans are not accepting the idea of people working as escorts. It is still a relatively taboo though perfectly legal job in Singapore.
However, Singaporeans also want ‘face’. That is one of the biggest reasons why social escorts are seemingly driven underground when it comes to juggling their personal and escort work lives.
Here is a recount of a verified Singaporean social escort living in Singapore.
A university student, Alicia is currently working part time during any free days and weekends as an escort to pay for her university loans. Unable to secure a scholarship, and having come from a lower-middle income family background, she had to rely on herself fast to get her loans paid off.
It was also in recent years that the idea of being an escort or sugar baby started to really take off. So Alicia decided to pursue this as a career on the side.
Alicia initially started off as a sugar baby, but realized that some clients were really needy.
However, as she had her personal lives and the sugar daddies simply could not understand why she wanted a separation between her personal life and her being their sugar babies, she decided to go and switch full time to being just a social escort instead.
Alicia said, “It’s simply less of a hassle, and fits my schedule as a student much better.”
“Additionally, I am actually paid more as a social escort per hour worked. None of the previous sugar baby work in Singapore or otherwise paid anywhere as much per hour worked.”
Alicia admits that sometimes she has to remind herself not to develop a crush on her clients.
Sometimes, she will meet a client whom she may start developing a crush on. In fact, the very first time it happened, she wondered why they had to meet this way.
Like everyone else, we asked her the seemingly obvious. Why not just quit and lead her future life with that guy like the movie ‘Pretty Woman’ then?
To which, Alicia replied, “Well, having my identity protected is the most important thing to me. If there is an ugly break up, there is a chance that the ex-client exposes my real identity to everyone. This can have bad social consequences for me in future. It is just way too much of a hassle.”
Working as an escort girl requires sacrificing a lot of personal time
Due to protecting her own privacy, she keeps her work completely secret from all of her friends and family.
She feels there is no need for others to know, as this is her personal choice and affected by no one else anyway. She is also single too, which makes it easier.
This meant leading a double life. Although sometimes she hates missing out on friends’ and relatives’ birthdays and gatherings, the money more than enough makes up for it. The money is definitely one of the major reasons why many Singaporean girls are becoming social escorts. If you are interested in some of the other reasons and want to know more, here are some lesser-known reasons some local girls become escorts.
One can say that Alicia is definitely long term minded.
Amazing for her finances
Everyone knows that being an escort can potentially bring lots of financial rewards. However, being an extremely successful escort in Singapore, where escorts are amongst the highest paid in the world, can result in truly amazing finances.
In short, according to Alicia, it is far more difficult than the casual job seeker thinks. Unless one is truly prepared for all the good and bad side of a social escort job, one shouldn’t do it at all.
I guess, being an escort is definitely not everyone’s cup of tea!