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What It’s Really Like To Be A Social Escort In Singapore – Secret Lives

Many people think that social escorts in Singapore lead very secretive lives, and that is partly true.

This is largely because Singapore is still considered a very conservative country. As a result most Singaporeans are not accepting the idea of people working as escorts. It is still a relatively taboo though perfectly legal job in Singapore.

However, Singaporeans also want ‘face’. That is one of the biggest reasons why social escorts are seemingly driven underground when it comes to juggling their personal and escort work lives.

Here is a recount of a verified Singaporean social escort living in Singapore.

A university student, Alicia is currently working part time during any free days and weekends as an escort to pay for her university loans. Unable to secure a scholarship, and having come from a lower-middle income family background, she had to rely on herself fast to get her loans paid off.

It was also in recent years that the idea of being an escort or sugar baby started to really take off. So Alicia decided to pursue this as a career on the side.

Alicia initially started off as a sugar baby, but realized that some clients were really needy.

However, as she had her personal lives and the sugar daddies simply could not understand why she wanted a separation between her personal life and her being their sugar babies, she decided to go and switch full time to being just a social escort instead.

Alicia said, “It’s simply less of a hassle, and fits my schedule as a student much better.”

“Additionally, I am actually paid more as a social escort per hour worked. None of the previous sugar baby work in Singapore or otherwise paid anywhere as much per hour worked.”

Alicia admits that sometimes she has to remind herself not to develop a crush on her clients.

Sometimes, she will meet a client whom she may start developing a crush on. In fact, the very first time it happened, she wondered why they had to meet this way.

Like everyone else, we asked her the seemingly obvious. Why not just quit and lead her future life with that guy like the movie ‘Pretty Woman’ then?

To which, Alicia replied, “Well, having my identity protected is the most important thing to me. If there is an ugly break up, there is a chance that the ex-client exposes my real identity to everyone. This can have bad social consequences for me in future. It is just way too much of a hassle.”

Working as an escort girl requires sacrificing a lot of personal time

Due to protecting her own privacy, she keeps her work completely secret from all of her friends and family.

She feels there is no need for others to know, as this is her personal choice and affected by no one else anyway. She is also single too, which makes it easier.

This meant leading a double life. Although sometimes she hates missing out on friends’ and relatives’ birthdays and gatherings, the money more than enough makes up for it. The money is definitely one of the major reasons why many Singaporean girls are becoming social escorts. If you are interested in some of the other reasons and want to know more, here are some lesser-known reasons some local girls become escorts.

One can say that Alicia is definitely long term minded.

Amazing for her finances

Everyone knows that being an escort can potentially bring lots of financial rewards. However, being an extremely successful escort in Singapore, where escorts are amongst the highest paid in the world, can result in truly amazing finances.

In short, according to Alicia,¬†it is far more difficult than the casual job seeker thinks. Unless one is truly prepared for all the good and bad side of a social escort job, one shouldn’t do it at all.

I guess, being an escort is definitely not¬†everyone’s cup of tea!

Should You Be A Social Escort In Singapore? Pros And Cons

Some girls think that being a social escort is an easy job. It is easy if you know what to expect, and are fully aware of the pros and cons and proceed. Just like any other job, there are always upsides, and downsides. Here are some pros and cons of being a social escort in Singapore.

Pros of being an escort in Singapore:

1. It is highly paid. On a per hour basis, you make as much as top lawyers and surgeons in their 40s make. You can be expecting to make anywhere between $200 to $500 per hour as a social escort in Singapore.

2. You can hold a full time job, or perhaps even still run a Carousell business selling other things on the side. Many social escorts have a full time job as an insurance or property agent or perhaps a fixed hour office job or run their own online business while working as a social escort. The beauty of this job is that it can be part time.

3. You need not have sky high academic qualifications to get a social escort job in Singapore. However, it is strongly recommended that you at least have a Diploma or Degree, and are eloquent. Clients engage escorts who are intelligent, beautiful and eloquent, not a low class ah lian.

4. Due to the high paying nature of the job, you are essentially being paid to be someone’s temporary girlfriend for perhaps a few times a week. This means that you will be able to make a tidy income from your social escort job with just a few hours a week if you are able to accept both the pros and cons.

5. Did someone say more financial freedom, Prada, Gucci and Louboutin? These are the norm if you work hard as a social escort in Singapore.

Cons of being an escort in SG:

A. Clients are very last minute. If you do not have a flexible schedule, I strongly recommend against you applying for any escort vacancies. Some of them can contact you and request to meet you within the hour, while some within a few hours.

B. Just like any job, there may be clients you love, and there may be clients you hate. As long as you can accept that and you are a people pleaser type, then you can potentially do well.

C. You cannot choose your clients. Some agencies allow you to pick clients to a tiny extent, but largely, if you want to make a lot of money, stop being picky. This job is terrible if you have a picky personality.

Special things you may want to note:

– Being available on demand is key if you want to make a lot of money as a female social escort in Singapore.

– Being available at odd hours will ensure you will make more money as an escort than other girls in Singapore – this is because other girls may not be available e.g. in middle of the afternoon or well past midnight. If you are available, you may make more money.

– Clients do not pay you to be a social escort to stand next to them or sit there motionlessly like a first date. Clients pay you so much money for you to pretend as though you are already their girl.

– You may want to do further research online by yourself on the social escorts industry in Singapore before deciding to become one.

– It can be a financially rewarding career if you can accept both the pros and cons of the job. If you want to know more about how much you can really make as an escort in Singapore, read this other post.

– You can watch this Razor TV interview episode of a local social escort in Singapore who talks about her lifestyle as a social escort in Singapore.